Q) Is it possible to be successful and not lose people ?

It is not possible to be successful and not lose most of the people. those who are your true people will remain with you at all times , lows and highs.but those most of your people so called friends or relatives will not remain at you during your lows. and will come in during your highs with an excuse why they were unable to be with you at your lows. see in order to be successful you need to overcome many failures and low points giving you several life lessons and experience required to acquire that dream of yours. when these life lessons and experience are put to use are gonna bound to give you the achieved version of your dream. but for hat you have to overcome multiple failures and lows where you are gonna see , who truly are you people and who are not. most of them are not gonna support you during this point which leads them being in the fake people category . but those who support you belong to the real people category. there are more classification done on both these classes of real and fake people which will be known when you will analyze deeply so these two category will be easily identified ( 98% ) due to which this is more than sufficient. in order to be successful you require to adapt a mindset different from those 95% due to which people start passing mean comments which you would be familiar if you are in this category , and people start making fun of you , the start pulling you down , bringing in the so called societal pressure and many more . and this a stage where those few people who tried to be something different , and out of these few people , most of them quit at this stage of societal pressure and after this comes the stage of failures and lows , where these minute amount of people who survived the previous stage , out of them most of them quit . because they feel like the surrounding people were right as they saw a failure . and out of most minute amount of people who survived this two stages are crowed as successful people , this is reason why 98% of people are not successful , it is those 2% who are successful who never gave up on there dreams. you will have to go thru a whole lot of pain in order to be standing in the category fo successful people. Because most of life’s greatest lesson’s are learned through pain.You must fall more in order to grow more. the struggle you are in today is shaping a bright wide destination for you tomorrow. the struggle you do is directly proportional to the success to are gonna achieve. the more you burn the more you achieve something. to build a tall building you have to build the same height downwards first before building it upwards. the more build downwards ( the struggle you go thru ) is the more you build the upwards ( the success you are going to achieve ) in order to provide stability ( the inner feeling that you deserve the success you have achieved right now ). remember these bad days are going to give you the best lessons that is bound to help you achieve something much greater than you would have possibly thought of. so just believe in your self and work hard during these times , crush thru and see what is waiting for you. It might some time in proving yourself worthy to god. but remember bhagwan ke ghar me dher hai lekin andher nahi. Believe in your self.

Focus on the process rather the in the outcome , by focusing on the process in is in your hand you should easily drift the outcome’s direction towards the way you would like it to drift .

Grapes must be crushed to make wine

Diamonds form under pressure

olives are pressed to receive oil

seeds grow in darkness

Whenever you feel crushed , under pressure , pressed , or in darkness. That’s when you are in a powerful place of transformation to become the better you.

Trust the process

It might take time to finally achieve what you dreamt of , but surely you are gonna much more then that if you have that vigorous amount of will and determination in you. imagine your road to be lengthy and uneven but your destiny to be much wider and planar.

The more you cry ( tears of sadness ) during your struggling period is the more you cry (tears of happiness ) during your success.

~Manas Seetharama