Value yourself more than anyone

 Japanese say that we have 3 faces

1. The first face , you show to the world
2. The second face , you show it to your close friends and your family
3. The third face , you show to no one , which is actually your purest/ truest reflection of who you are.

It ain’t gonna  matter what your 1st , 2nd face is , what actually matters is what is your 3rd face, that is the purest version of  you. mostly the 1st face is synthetic , the fake version of you ( actually the most fake version of you) you trying to pretend some type of behavior so that you could fit in that particular group and could reduce the mean comments passed. this is the face where you try to be someone so that you could fit in a group and be part of those so called cool kids. ( the most common desire in any new student ) 

Try being the real you , be the you , you like , not what others like, if people don’t like you for you , then don’t change yourself , change the people. just because , you wanna fit in a group , and they don’t like you for you , you pretend to be someone , you are just losing your dignity , losing yourself. The only person that stays with you from your birth to your death is your inner soul or often called as your conscience . and oh boy , if you start losing  your inner soul , you are ultimately making a fool out of your self and breaking your character . and character is a like a glass , once broken cannot be fixed easily by everyone. to fix a glass only some people can do it. sameway to fix a broken character only some people can do that . it requires the often called Guts and that can only be built and it takes years to build it. and only some people can do it. So once a character is broken the expectation of that getting repaired is 2% . so mate don’t take the risk. even tho a character is repaired it is never gonna be the same . same like how when a broken glass is repaired. there are still marks in it . same way that repaired character is also gonna have that marks. So whatever is the situation never break your character. never lose your self.  And remember that : CHARACTER IS BUILT OVER YEARS AND TO DESTROY IT , IT TAKES SECONDS .  ONCE A CHARACTER IS BROKEN IT CAN NEVER BE THE SAME . TAKE CARE OF IT LIKE A BABY.  If people don’t like you for you , change them . don’t change yourself. it is only you that stands by you at every moment , whether bad or good , it’s only you responsible for your good deeds and bad. it is only you responsible for being successful or unsuccessful . life is like a book and you are the author of it , it eventually depends on you how to display each and every chapter , whether it is by bad or good deed , depends on you.it is only you , be the main character of your own story , don’t try to be the main character of everybody’s story , it ain’t gonna work , you are bound to lose your purest form during that period. don’t lose your self . your worth is beyond your imagination , please don’t take yourself for granted. Never take yourself for granted ,We don’t know what we have , until we lose it . Learn to appreciate what you have , before it’s no longer with you. losing your love is okay , losing your best friend is okay , but losing yourself in the process of getting them back is totally unacceptable , it’s not okay. value yourself. your worth is way more than you think . need not try to please everyone then end up losing yourself, those who understand without you speaking up , is truly the person you require, those you don’t understand after you speak up too , it is the person , you should discard from your life. those people for whom your losing yourself by pleasing them , absolutely don’t deserve a penny of it , don’t please everyone , that isn’t your job. people who understand , you love you for you , won’t require to be pleased by you. fake people leave when you cry and real people give their shoulder for your to cry with. so focus on those minute amount of people only. quality over quantity.

BE THE YOU , YOU LIKE . IF PEOPLE DON’T LIKE YOU FOR YOU , DON’T CHANGE YOURSELF , CHANGE THE PEOPLE.

~Manas Seetharama