Don’t trust people to quick ! Believe me i am qualified enough ( i have seen variety of people in their variety of characters ) to give you some advice on the above given topic.

Don’t depend on your friends so much that you fall down when they move away. people change , and change is the only constant in anyone’s life. people are unpredictable , they change there behavior according to there mood or there intensity of there anger level .

± I have seen many people in my life who change completely when they get angry ( maybe the exam they gave gone bad or going to rejections ) , that they even kinda expose you and make you feel really uncomfortable even tho they are the ones who make you feel the most comforting when they are normal.

± I have seen many people in my life who don’t give you the respect or love you require or which you give them . many of friends - friends go thru this crisis that they don’t get the equivalent or approximately equivalent of the energy they put in to make the relationship stand.

± I have seen many people in my life who completely change in front of the person they have a crush on , like they start behaving like they are the leader or they just start dominating you or they simply start hitting you ( exposing they dominating behavior ) ( and for god sake dominating behavior is not a behavior that a girl seeks in a boy - god dammit they come to you so that they can be treated equally for who they are not for being dominated by you ( ideally if you dominated your friends in front of them obviously you are bound to dominate that person , maybe not suddenly but gradually the dominating behavior will start to show it’s colour )

± I have seen many people in my life who just gives you the wrong advice in an particular domain you are good at and they are not good at but you don’t see that they are not good at it and you are ( the main key behind this wrong advice is jealousy ) . so that they don’t feel like they are lesser to you in that domain by giving you wrong advices by which they indirectly influence your decision.

± I have seen many people in my life who just tries to distract you with an particular thing because you are dominating the domain ( in an healthy manner )they are chasing behind and were at the top before you entered. ( same thing happened in big bang theory show - where dennis kim was distracted by sheldon and his friends circle cause dennis kim was topping in the domain sheldon was at the top before he came by distracting him by using women on him )

And many more , at least you might have experienced 1or 2 above given situations in your life and trust me i have experienced all of them ( that’s why when i say ). 15 years in this world and i have already experienced a lot , does not stand wrong . hence i am qualified enough to give you the following statement !

In conclusion : don’t depend on anyone so much that you are left broken when they leave you . Don’t trust people so quickly based on the character they show they are , spend some time with them and start digging there true character then judge them based on that ( people can’t pretend to be what they are not for a long period of time ) whether to trust them or not.

~Manas Seetharama